Friday, 20 June 2014

HE NOW AVOIDS ME AFTER WE HAD SEX







Good day friends, I have been receiving lot of email from my friends and with their permission I have decided to share some of them with my fellow blog follower’s maybe they are few things you could learn from their experience.
I have decided not to include their names to protect their identity, so let share two of this experiences and my advice to them.

DEAR RPB.
I met this guy about two month ago when we boarded the same public transport, during our conversation we exchange numbers and become friends onwards and I must confess I really like him, he was so nice and I thought we could have something going on.
 He never fails to call every night and day and we always see each other every weekend. But things changed or may I say he changed after about two weeks ago when I gave myself to him, he barely calls like he normally do and when I call him he won’t pick when he does they is always this excuse that he was busy. I have not seen him since then despite every effort I have made for us to meet, he just keep giving me excuses, Am confused.

DEAR RPB FRIEND.
Hmmmmmmmmm, my dear I think you should pick whatever pride that is left in you and let go, it obvious he does not want a relationship and you have already giving him what he want (SEX). But it quite disappointing that in less than two month of meeting a guy you have already giving yourself to him, you should be smarter than that.
Guys who only go for sex with ladies can easily be avoided, they are impatient and if you make it clear that you are not cut out for that and keep to your words they will go away and you should also let go because his intention is clear. Guys who really want you for relationship don’t  emphases on sex his interest is to know how compactable you will be with him and you will get to know the important people in his life vice versa.
You see, true relationship will definitely involve loved ones, families and friends and the important people in your lives will get to know who you are with, so it  not always a few month thing.
I hope I have been of help, CHEERS.



DEAR RPB.
You are doing a good job and I pray you keep it up with your lovely postings. I think the problem with me and a successful relationship is my height and size, am just 5feet 2inches tall and with a small body, I am barely noticed by guys and am already in my thirties.
I was in a relationship once and he broke up with me because his friends always make fun of him any time we are together, our height difference is almost 2 feet difference so you can imagine what it looks like when we stand together. I have a pretty face though but I wish there is something I could do about my body size, Thanks.

DEAR RPB FRIEND.
Thanks for the compliment and without wasting much time on this let me make it clear to you that body size have nothing to do with a successful relationship, but a successful relationship has everything to do with our mind and heart. Let take Will smith and Jada Pinkett Smith for instance, Jada smith is only 4feet 9inches tall while Will Smith is above 6feet 2inches tall so you imagine the difference, have you ever heard of a more successful celebrity relationship like this wonderful couples .
The guy you dated is not meant for you and like I always say there is a man for every woman just keep looking good and always be cheerful and what is yours will come to you, okay. CHEERS


That it for now maybe I will post another relationship issue next weekend but for now remain blesses from RPB.
You can always email me at ruth.miss@gmail.com

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