This love of which I speak is slow to lose patience - it
looks for a way of being constructive.
Love is not possessive.
Love is not anxious to impress nor does it cherish inflated ideas of its own
ideas.
Love has good manners and does not pursue selfish advantage.
Love is not touchy.
Love does not keep account of evil or gloat over the wickedness of other
people. On the contrary, it is glad with all good men when truth prevails.
Love knows no limits to its endurance, no end to its trust, no fading of its
hope; it can outlast anything. It is, in fact, the one thing that stands when
all else has fallen.
Love is a commitment that will be tested in the most
vulnerable areas of spirituality, a commitment that will force you to make some
very difficult choices. It is a commitment that demands that you deal with your
lust, your greed, your pride, your power, your desire to control, your temper,
your patience, and every area of temptation that the Bible clearly talks about.
It demands the quality of commitment that Jesus demonstrates in His
relationship to us.
It takes three to make love, not two: you, your spouse, and
God. Without God people only succeed in bringing out the worst in one another.
Lovers who have nothing else to do but love each other soon find there is
nothing else. Without a central loyalty life is unfinished.
Love doesn’t have to be on Valentine’s Day. It doesn’t have
to be by the time you turn eighteen or thirty-three or fifty-nine. It doesn’t
have to conform to whatever is usual. It doesn’t have to be kismet at once, or
rhapsody by the third day
“Hope for love, pray for love, wish for love, dream for
love…but don’t put your life on hold waiting for love.”



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