The Control Freak
Don't be surprised that there are ladies like this. She monitors your movements every here and there with phone calls. Not because he cares, but for the fear of losing you. She doesn't give you a breathing space or makes you feel free. She is all over you all the time and is extremely jealous, she disrespects your values in life and your opinion does not really count.
The Control Freak
A sex freak
Any lady who cannot delay gratification but wants everything from you even before marriage needs to be watched. She often use sex as a medium of getting your attention and exploit you in return. She doesn't believe in sexual purity or no sex until marriage. Mind you, she could be in your life for a mission. Remember
Delilah, before she ruins your life and destiny!
The secretive woman
We all have secrets about our past but there are some secrets that would be detrimental to your relationship in the future. If she hides everything about her past from you, or doesn't open up to you, then you'll be walking with her into an unknown world Relationship requires transparency and cannot grow without it.
The complainer
Any lady who cannot take responsibility for her life and action but blames everyone for her challenges except
herself is not worth your hand in marriage! She may also not take responsibility for her marriage! If you do, she would end up blaming you for the predicament you brought into their life even though it was a result of her deed. It is better to live in the corner of a rooftop than to dwell with a complainer.
The Lazy Queen
Never consider getting married to a lazy woman who does not have a realistic vision for her life! A woman who is going nowhere will not help his husband get anywhere. In fact, she will weigh down your progress. She might be beautiful or good looking, but all that will not tidy the house, do the dishes, do laundries or get
food on your table.
The Anti-spiritual fella
Never marry a woman who does not have a relationship with God unless you too do not have one. When I mean relationship, it goes beyond going to church on Sundays or becoming a member of one denomination. It is also beyond, she sings in the choir, she prays alot or she attend church often. Watch the fruits of her character. A woman who loves and respect the Lord will love and respect you in obedience to the Lord!
The Explosive Agent
Be mindful of a woman who is hot tempered, if she flares up because of the things that are insignificant or at a
slightest provocation, it might be dangerous getting married to her. Anybody with this trait could be aggressive, physically abusive and unpredictable in marriage. Mind you, for the fact she hits the wall or bang the table doesn't mean she won't beat you up when you marry. A lady who cannot control her temper is a time-bomb waiting to explode!
The Extravagant woman
Here is a lady who lives a luxury life even if it would cost her to borrow to ensure that she satisfies her cravings. She likes going to parties and can spend more money on jewelleries while other area of her lag behind. She spends lavishly or buys thing that are of no value just to satisfy her pleasure. At times, she is the
type that works for her money but she ends up wasting it on frivolities without having a plan for her future. If you marry her, she will not plan the future with you.
The Unmannered lady
Never get married to a woman who does not respect people around her. If she doesn't respect you, your friends or parents, stay away from her if she refused to change. If she yells at you or verbally insults you, there's no how she won't treat your parent in such manner. Look beyond the physical features of a
woman. Marriage is not a feature of the 'container' is has much to do with the 'content' of who you marry. If changes cannot be achieved before marriage, it will be wise not to compromise on important issues that could mar the success of your relationship.
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