Husbands and Wives, when you argue, please remember these important Golden Rules!
1. Respect your spouse in all that you say, especially when angry!
2. Never threaten Divorce. Take that word out of your vocabulary.
3. Don't bring up your spouse's past mistakes. Forgive and move on. Don't dig up old dirt.
4. Listen more than you talk. Try to understand more than you try to be understood.
5. Don't lose your temper. If you start losing control or raising your voice, take a deep breath and stop talking.
6. Don't try to "win" the argument. Look for solutions where you both win. As husband and wife, you are "One" so when one of you loses, you both lose!
7. Be angry with the offense, not the Person! Criticize the Act not the Person! Love and Hatred can't dwell in the same heart.
8. Always seek for reconciliation and apologize when you are wrong.
9. Analyse all you did and said, find out where you were wrong, make amends.
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