MISTAKE WOMEN MAKES IN THEIR MARRIAGE

NAGGING/TROUBLESOME

Men do not like it when their wives nags, it completely frustrate  them and they will always find excuse to stay away from their wives when it comes to that. A man would prefer his wife to state the problem without resorting to whining. Trust me if you are the type that always nags about one thing or the other you are causing a serious problem in your marriage.

ALWAYS SUSPICIOUS

This act alone creates a distance between you and your husband and is bound to change the love and attention you have for each other. There is no way two people can live together in harmony as husband and wife under same roof with a suspicious attitude. It may hold for a while but will soon crack and break into a fight or divorce. A suspicious wife has a dangerous effect to the unity and the growth of the family.

TOO INQUISITIVE AND OVERLY JEALOUS

Trust me is not love that is blind but jealousy and it leads to being inquisitive on something that you have no business being inquisitive about. You are always on your husband trail and when his phone beeps, you react and want to know who sent a message to his phone. This overly jealous and inquisitive behavior is the major breaker of marriage.

TOO DEMANDING

Having insatiable appetite for material things and putting unnecessary pressure on your husband may lead him to his early grave. Men find it difficult to cope with a wife that is excessively demanding and never satisfied with what they have. If you are driving your husband insane by your unending demands, you are actually demanding for problems in your marriage.

DENIAL OF SEX

Sex is the motivator of marriage, it becomes ridiculous to enter into marriage and then deny your husband one of the very thing that helps drive him into marriage. Obviously, your constant denial will drive him out and probably into the hand of another. There is a saying that when a woman denies her husband sex, she has opened the door of Adultery in her home.

BAD COOK

The way to the man’s heart is the stomach so is the believe of the Africans, it is expected that one of the ways women should be able to communicate effectively with her husband is by the dishes she prepares. Let face it, in our African tradition it is the wife duty to prepare the meal and if she is lacking in that area, that is do not know how to cook then she will have problems in her marriage and this may leads the husband looking outside for a more satisfying meal.

BEING AUTHORITATIVE AND CHALLENGING HIS AUTHORITY

When you have the attitude of always challenging your husband without any form of respect and make his authorities irrelevant and less important you may be heading for trouble in your marriage. Always challenging your husband authority is a complete indication that you have not submitted yourself to him and you don’t give him the respect he desire. Men greatest need in marriage is respect yet too often wives neglect to give their husband the respect they need which significantly damages their marriage .When you neglect his authority as a man of the house its painful to him and harmful to your marriage.

STILL KEEPING CONTACT WITH PAST INTIMATE MALE FRIENDS

Keeping contact with male friends who you may have had intimacy with before you got married is a very bad idea, the only thing you will achieve in this is a complete collapse of your marriage especially if your husband is not comfortable with it. Every past relationship a woman has with a male friend if intimate should come to an end the moment she got married. Still keeping contact with ex boyfriends either through social Medias or phone call may lead to problems in your marriage.

DRESSING SHABBY

Probably the first time your husband met you who were radiant with your dressing, you showed class in your appearance, something that probably made him approach you in the first place but after marriage you think it does not matter anymore to always look good, your wardrobe and sense of dressing diminished, then you have given him visa to look for more attractively dressed lady. Ladies must try as must as possible to still keep up with a good mode of dressing because men are generally moved by sight and if you dress shabby the tendency that he will notice you less will step him.