1. Can you wake up by 2am daily no matter how deep or sweet your sleep is just to help change the baby diapers, feed your hungry crying child and not always disturb your partner? If you can't, then rethink now cos' you are not ready.
2. Can you know the worst of your partner and not tell it even your best friend, mum or dad? If you have a scratching mouth, please stay away from relationships.
3. Can you live with an annoying habit in your partner's life without nagging them to change? You have been telling your partner that a particular habit or character annoys or irritates you. Can you blind your eye to this habit and not ever talk about it again instead trying to change him or her?
4. Can you endure a partner who is not good in bed and he or she is not even ready to improve or learn and yet you choose to love them by not sleeping out? If you can't, you are a serious disaster waiting to happen.
5. How easy can you forgive and not ever bring up the past in future discussion? If you can't let the past go, you are not ready.
6. How often do you get upset? How easily do you get offended? Quick? Too soon? Are you hot tempered? Are you abusive verbally, physically or sexually? If you are, you are not ready yet for
marriage. You are a disaster waiting to happen.
7. You want the lights on. Your partner wants the light off. You want to sleep with the 'AC' on but
your partner wants it off. Can you daily ignore your own need to meet his or her's? Love seeks not its own. If yours does, you are not ready. You are a time waster
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