CAREFUL LADIES, SIGNS HE'S A PLAYER

He always seems to focus on anything else but you. If he doesn't seem to be paying to attention, it's because something (or someone) else caught his eye. His wandering eyes are surveying the area in search of pretty ladies.

He displays feminine characteristics - wears lots of jewelry, has his nails perfectly manicured, focuses a because something (or someone) else caught his eye. His wandering eyes are surveying the area in search of pretty ladies.

He calls or texts you in the late hours - typically after 11 p.m. You may think it's sweet, but really - why not talk to you during normal daytime hours? If you only hear from him at night, it's because he's only looking for one thing: sex. He's looking for a booty call, and you can bet that you're not the only girl he's calling or texting.

 

A player remembers nothing about your conversations. Some guys, myself included, have less-than-perfect memories. It’s not that we don’t listen, it’s just that sometimes we genuinely can’t remember smaller details about things. That being said, though, if we are with a woman we truly care about, we will put in the energy and effort to keep track of things. Small things like asking how your grandmother’s cold is, or not your first date – but the date you met. If you feel like the man you’re talking to could just insert any other woman’s name into the things he says to you and your topics of conversation, you’re probably being played.


He’s not interested in your life. Sure he ask how your day was and stuff like that, but does he really care?. I think not. They make it seem like they do, when in reality they could care less. They just want to get to the point and see if you’re willing to sleep with him or not


He knows exactly what to say. In other words he’s a smooth talker, knows what to say when you’re mad, upset, or down. He’ll make you feel special that you’ll believe his words and you will trust he’s a “nice guy”. By this time he basically has you wrapped around his finger, and will control your emotions.

If he sees you for the first time and is interested in you, he'll immediately get too close and invade your personal space. Or if he sees you catching his eye from afar, he'll just stare at you for a while instead of glancing at you and then looking away, like most single men do when they catch the eye of a pretty lady. If his behavior seems a little strange or pushy, then he's most likely trying to play you.


You have to be the one contacting him. So, he use to text you 24/7 right? But then it stopped do you wanna know why that is..Best guess is he found another female that’s going to keep him company. If you’ve already slept with him chances are he’s not coming back since you gave him what he wanted. If he does come back he’s just coming back for more. If you have not had sex with him, he’s realized you’re not going to and will forget about you.

Finds an excuse to avoid hanging out. They aren’t looking for a commitment, so they will come up with anything to stop being seen in public with you. Unless he’s really that good at his game that he knows by the end of the night he’s getting some.

He has way too many girls that are friends. If he has more girls that are friends then guys we have a problem. Typical players like getting around, talking to more than one female at a time. If a lot of girls know who he is, chances are that he’s received the title of being a player by now. Which is a huge red flag, stay away from him!